What we have taught wrong about betrayal and breakups in Relationships!
There is no such thing as betrayal in love..Sounds awkward? Right? But just like your own happiness is the ultimate goal of your life, the same applies to the person you love as well..
Love is not the extraction of happiness from the other person instead it's the expression of love towards your loved ones..Love happens only within you..Because somebody loving you might become nuisance at times ! :P
It's not that they have betrayed you, it is just that they are finding their own happiness just like you could find in them! And probably, right now, you might not be the person where they are able to find their joy or it might be the other reason depending on the situations..If you respect them then respect their decision of breaking up with you as well..And don't ever try to convince them.. Some ups and downs will surely come no matter how hard you try to manage and it may disappoint both of you temporarily but If they know you well , surely they will come back to you one day definitely.
If you really love them..Then set them free..Or better you run away! :D Give them the freedom.. Let them do the things which they want to do i.e where their happiness lies..Instead of expecting them to do the things which you like..And instead of always expecting them to feel the way you feel..because it's totally absurd!
If you can't fulfill all the expectations of your own then it's absurd to expect the same from the one you love !
There are no perfect human beings on this planet.. Have the happy relationship with yourself first and the rest will follow automatically..It is just that if you want to hold a good relationship with them just include themselves as a small part of your life as who they really are .There is no 'I' in a good relationship but only 'us', even if you are fighting, fight together! Whatever you do , do it together! And last but not the least without trust there can't be any good relationship!
